A weekly look at life with the Maloneys and their Labrador, Morse - mostly in Daylesford, Australia, and occasionally interstate or overseas
Morse
Sunday, 30 April 2023
Daylesford Autumn Dispatch - Sunday, 30th April 2023
Sunday, 23 April 2023
Daylesford Autumn Dispatch - 23rd April 2023
This is for our neighbour, Glen, who enjoys crosswords, except for that last elusive clue!
We started our week with a wet visit to the Daylesford Market, where Morse enjoyed his pear, and I shopped for us & Glen, getting some beautifully fresh fruit & vegetables for the week. Later in the morning Rob & Dene paid us a surprise visit with a sorrel plant they had given me, which I had forgotten to take home the day before. Morse was delighted & excited in equal amounts.
We had been invited to Glenda Rozen's birthday lunch at The Convent with two other couples - Peter & Irene, and Gus & Marilyn. We had met Peter & Irene a few times, but not Gus & Marilyn, who spend most of their year in Darwin. Tina, the owner, shouted bubbles for the table, which was beautifully set & much appreciated by Glenda.
Gus, Marilyn, Irene, Glenda, Wes, Karen & Peter
I was quite tired by the time we arrived home and decided to watch the Collingwood & St Kilda game from bed. Before the match, Collingwood FC finally issued the unconditional apology we owed to First Nations St Kilda players - Nicky Winmar & Gordon McAdam, who were racially vilified hideously 30 years ago at Victoria Park. Nicky Winmar was present at Adelaide for this match & tossed the coin. He then shook the hand of every single Collingwood player, which was a wonderful gesture. Before the game, the AFL & the South Australian Premier had announced that the Gather Round would be played in SA for the next three years, as it had been such a resounding success with every match sold out.
The game itself was an arm wrestle with the defensive St Kilda team constantly repelling the attacking Magpies. Eventually the Pies prevailed by a goal, in a game that deserved to be a draw, and would have been if it had lasted much longer.
At School on Monday, we focussed on my health & lack of energy which has gone on too long this time. Wes suggested I ask Dr Ellie if there was anything else I could be doing when I saw her the next day, which I duly did. She suggested I try taking zinc tablets & promised to read up on a new medication which has become available, to see if it would be suitable.
Tuesday started with a good Zoom chat with Leanne, followed by an excellent catch up with Terry Borg in Burwood. It was three weeks since we had spoken & there was much ground to cover, including our thoughts on the film, Living. Between the Zooms & my appt with Dr Ellie, we had been invited next door by James for morning tea. He served orange poppyseed cake, which was very morish and we heard about his many projects, as well as told him a little of our history. After I left, Wes invited him in here to see our place, which was probably not his cup of tea, apart from the views, as we have too many bright, colourful feature walls to please him.
Glen was looking good on Wednesday when I brought her a chai latte, and very pleased with the progress being made on her ramp. The young builders are working hard, and she will be so happy when it is fully operative & she can achieve the next level of independence. At present, her two front steps at the gate, are impossible to negotiate without assistance.
After spending time with Glen, I had a lovely phone conversation with old friend, Sherryn Danaher, who is always interesting to listen to, and I miss her very much now that we live so far from each other. She & I bought a holiday home in Blairgowrie back in the mid-eighties, furnished it, and introduced Paul & Wes to it only after it was set up. It was a wonderful weekender and so many friends enjoyed visiting. We were close to the back-beach, which everyone loved, including the many kids who played in the rock pools & caves.
1991 - Karen, Paul, Wes & Sherryn in Paul's cocktail garden at Blairgowrie
We were sad to read of the death of Fr Bob McGuire, who I first met when I was 17. He was one of those young priests of the 60s & 70s, who showed enormous compassion for everyone, and the church was very fortunate that he didn't leave the priesthood, as some of them felt compelled to do. He was a good, kind man, with a great sense of humour, who remained Parish Priest of his church in South Melbourne for 39 years.
On Thursday morning, Kathy, Lib & I had a great Zoom catch-up, and Lib was looking much happier now the humidity in Gladstone has eased off and nights are cooler. It was also 12 months to the day since I turned all the coat & trouser hangers around on my clothes, which meant it was time to check which hangers hadn't been turned back during that year. I discovered quite a few clothes hadn't been worn and parcelled them up for the Salvos. Thanks to Judi for this very practical and easy way to weed out what you don't wear from your wardrobe.
Sunday, 16 April 2023
Daylesford Autumn Dispatch - Sunday, 16th April 2023
We feel as though we spent Easter relaxing in a dog-friendly holiday home in Daylesford. The weather was so cold & wet, and we had no ducted heating, so found ourselves sitting by the fire in the lounge reading, watching footy, and eating our meals. We might have even fitted in the odd snooze.
Meanwhile, in Singapore - Olivia & Jack Lazzaro were looking very warm & relaxed
We drove to Trentham on Easter Monday morning to have a last breakfast at Chaplin's, where Mel has been looking after locals brilliantly for the past 11 years. She had been unable to sell her business, and decided to stay open until she ran out of food & coffee. We enjoyed a lovely breakfast & did School while we were there, looking at ways to catch up with old friends without putting me under pressure.
It's been a big week for chatting - I've caught up with Leanne twice, where the highlight is always the moment when Morse gets on my lap for a treat. I also shared some memories with Jeff, (my aunt in Lincolnshire), who told me that my mother, Viva, was seen as an icon by other members of her family for the way she coped so well with five children, cooking, cleaning, baking, preserving & caring for us all. I continued this theme with friend, Jan, in Maleny, who had a mother who filled her with admiration because of the way she effortlessly cooked for the family and their workmen, baking & preserving & making all the bread.
We had cancelled Mah Jong on Wednesday because of the School Holidays and so many visitors in Daylesford - it didn't seem fair to take up one of Muffins & More's tables. When Lyndal, my hairdresser, messaged me to say she had COVID and would have to postpone my fringe trim, we had a free & very wet morning and decided to use it seeing the Bill Nighy film, Living, in Ballarat. We are so pleased we did - The Age reviewer gave it 5 stars & we couldn't fault it - beautifully written & filmed with an excellent cast. Please catch it if you haven't already.
We were very sorry to read of the death of long-time Daylesford Rotarian & friend, John Egan, who was a gentle soul with a lovely smile. He reached the age of 90, and will be much missed by his family and locally.
On Thursday, after Wes had an interesting Zoom with his Overseas Friends on the topic of crypto-currency, I had a lovely Old Friends Zoom with Kathy & Karen, and we ranged over a number of topics, including the best way to cope with Heathrow Airport. Kathy thinks catching the bus to Oxford is the way to go, I think arriving in Glasgow or Edinburgh is good for us, and Karen is prepared to catch the train into London. Heathrow is like a large city these days & everything takes so long to achieve. I suspect we will try not to land there again, and if we do, we'll catch a bus to Oxford or somewhere lovely like that.
This weekend, all footy matches have been played in South Australia, most of them at the beautiful Adelaide Oval, for the inaugural Gather Round. Adelaide & Carlton were the first to play on Thursday night, and Wes was most disappointed when the Crows jumped the Blues in the 1st quarter & they were unable to catch up. Collingwood is playing St Kilda in the final game later today, and it will be a big test for us again.
Thursday & Friday were perfect Autumnal days, and it was a pleasure to sit outside watching the bees & butterflies being busy. Wes had bought bags of manure to feed the roses and got that job done before the rain arrived yesterday.
Lovely photo of Toby Jug, our second lab who was poisoned at 2 years old in Essendon - he was a very intelligent and handsome lab and his death was cruel & unnecessary - we moved to Brunswick shortly afterwards
We visited Rob & Dene in Ballan with Morse yesterday morning & had a lovely time. Morse was delighted to see them both again, as were we. It was a cold morning, but the rain held off until the afternoon. Rob has been doing wonders in their garden, which we admired, before moving indoors for morning tea & some serious chatting.
Morse recovering from all the excitement of the visit
We're sitting here in our study looking out at our back garden where rosellas are feeding, the roses are blooming again, and everywhere is touched by raindrops and shimmering. Meanwhile, Morse is waiting impatiently in Wes's recliner for us to go to the Daylesford Market.