Dear Friends, thank
you all so much for your messages of support and empathy. I am sorry that I wasn’t
able to share my worry before the op, but mostly everyone seems to understand
and you have been very thoughtful with your emails, texts, e-cards and phone
calls. In the past every operation or procedure I have been through has
involved a local anaesthetic because of my asthma, so my first general
anaesthetic was quite a worrying experience in every way because I am used to
knowing what is going on.
Last Sunday Wes had
a visit from Born & Bred – two Gen Y women broadcasting researchers, who
are looking into ‘interesting Victorian murders’ and the murder of Warren’s
great grandfather, Frank Cartwright, at the Eastern Market in 1899 is one of
those. Their research has uncovered interesting information for Wes as well –
he wrote in an email to Jeff Hoolihan that they could tell him that the
murderer, Emery Medor, finished his days in nearby Trentham.
Chillies thriving on the decking
– they don’t seem to have missed my ministrations – can’t wait to taste the big
red Jalapeno on the right!
On Monday, we drove
to Ballarat yet again for a follow up appointment with Andrew Lowe at his rooms
opposite the hospital in Drummond Street. Andrew removed the dressings,
declared himself happy with progress and made an appointment for me in
Daylesford in two weeks’ time. The scar is 10cm long and very bruised and
puffy, but pathology was clear and that is the main thing. We came straight
home and I rested until 4pm when I could stay sitting up no longer and
gratefully went to bed.
I had decided not
to watch ‘In the Heart of the Sea’ at Daylesford Cinema, as the shorts were
enough to convince me that even Herman Melville wouldn’t recognise ‘Moby Dick’
from this screenplay. Wes had an enjoyable morning avoiding it as well and was
able to let his team, Lauren & Jeanette, join the paying customers to see
the film.
In the afternoon
Wes and Barbara went to Wallaby Grove Olive Farm, where Al & Elli were
hosting an Australia Day party and saying goodbye to the property as they have
sold and will be moving to Glenlyon next month.
I had a very quiet
Australia Day, which suited me fine – these days I am not too sure about
celebrating Invasion Day and I have been out of love with our flag for over 40
years. I don’t think my preferred choice of the Eureka Flag will ever win
enough popular support, but I hope that the Southern Horizon Flag or something
similar, perhaps incorporating the Aboriginal Flag, will one day soon replace
our outdated one. I’m also hopeful that the push for a republic will gain
momentum quickly – our new Australian of the Year, David Morrison, seems keen
and he has shown he can change culture very rapidly.
Early on Wednesday
morning I drove the car for about 5 minutes just to see how I went and it was
fine. I went through roundabouts, made right hand turns and stopped on hills,
just to be sure. Sandra arrived to clean much to Bilbo’s delight. He had been
bathed the day before and our house is knee deep in fur, which doubled by the
time he and Sandra had finished their cuddles.
Lovely photo from 1996 – we are
on the train from Singapore to Malacca, where we met a young couple who were
planning to marry shortly and wanted us to come back for their wedding. We
didn’t go, but sent them a toy koala & kangaroo instead.
Wes spent a very
busy gardening morning over at Barbara’s where he planted agapanthus in the
front. I re-potted our Hungarian yellow chillies, which were growing very
rapidly in the greenhouse.
Wes had a wonderful
day in Melbourne on Thursday. He dropped some shopping off for Leanne, then
visited Fawkner, Coburg & Melbourne cemeteries saying hello to relatives
and friends and finding the grave of Frank Cartwright. He popped into his
Indian hairdresser, checked out the spot where the Eastern Market used to be
and ended the day with drinks at Jimmy Watsons, catching up with good friend,
Jon Stephens.
I had shopped early
at Coles & Tonnas before having a manicure and pedicure with Alanna. That
afternoon I visited the Medical Centre and saw Dr Suzi Fox, as I felt that my
wound might heal better with some sort of covering over it. I hadn’t been
sleeping as well as I would have liked since the bandages came off, as every
time I moved in the bed I irritated the scar. Suzi agreed and a nurse put a
light dressing on for me and I enjoyed a much better night’s sleep.
When Wes and Bilbo
returned from their walk on Friday morning, they had spent time chatting with
Barry the Fisherman and discovered that his great aunt was Selina Cooper, the
English suffragette, who was the first woman to represent the Independent
Labour Party, when she was elected a Poor Law Guardian in 1901. Nine years later,
she was one of four women chosen to present the case for women’s suffrage to
the Prime Minister, Herbert Asquith. It wasn’t until 1928 that the vote was
given to all women over 21 in the United Kingdom, whereas we in Australia had
it for Federal Elections in 1902, and all States had legislated for women’s
suffrage by 1911. However, across the ditch in New Zealand, the law was passed even
earlier in 1893.
Nurse Bilbo on the doona
Gillie had invited
me to join her for a cuppa that morning and it was lovely to sit at The Food
Gallery for an hour or so, chatting & catching up with her. She had spent
the previous day in Carlton seeing four films at Cinema Nova.
Our latest rose – One Love, which
is very beautiful indeed – as the rose ages it turns a dark smoky purple colour
Yesterday was
another quiet day – I took Bilbo with me to pump water at Leitches Creek, while
Wes enjoyed a sleep-in and read of The Age. The last three Saturdays have
delivered wonderful papers, with so much to read and absorb, as well as the
crosswords of course.
We have wakened
today to beautiful soaking rain – I’m not sure when it started, but I’ve been
aware of it most of the early morning. This is just what everyone’s gardens have
been longing for and hopefully any bushfire areas are also getting a soaking.
We are off to the Sunday Market shortly – Wes has offered to carry the bags,
which is a big help and then breakfast at the Food Gallery. We have no plans
for the rest of the day – I will be tired after the socialising and have
washing & ironing to do and Wes will be hoping to get into the garden after
the rain stops.
Can’t believe it is
the last day of January – at least we only have one more month of Summer to
worry about, although the long range forecasts are suggesting we won’t get much
above 31°, which is preferable to 40s and bushfires galore.