Dear Friends, at breakfast last Sunday there were five of us
and the conversation centred round treatment of older people, especially by
institutions. We discovered that Margo, in her eighties, plays the piano at
Lumeah Lodge, which is where some of the Daylesford oldies find themselves when
they can no longer live alone. She is disappointed that there is very little mental
& physical stimulation and is determined she won’t go there when her time
comes. Bilbo and Molly love Margo, especially when she brings them leftover
toast, which on that morning came spread with Vegemite! Barbara told us a very
funny story about local identity, John Bohn, and did a creditable impersonation
of his voice, which had us all amused.
In the afternoon there was a concert by the Zelman Memorial
Symphony Orchestra at the Daylesford Town Hall. I was really keen to attend,
but couldn’t face the numbers of people I would know and with whom I would have
to interact. At gym on Monday, friends Bill & Steve, assured me there had
been around 150 at the concert, which is a wonderful attendance – the Town Hall
would have been packed.
After gym on Monday Nick Massaro came to give me a very
welcome massage. Bilbo is always excited to see Nick, who usually brings a
treat for him. I spent most of the rest of the day washing and ironing, including
two visits to Gail & Terry White to use their giant washing machine which
holds our underlay or doona and which they are happy for me to use every now
and again. Gail had been unwell during the week, but was looking OK when I saw
her. I briefly met their new 12-year old cat, Bobby, who was avoiding the cage
and a visit to the vet.
During the afternoon I realised that the underlay wasn’t
turning around in our dryer, so I put it in the drying cupboard, turned the
heater up to 24°, closed all the heating ducts except the one in that cupboard
and took off most of my clothes. Wes did the same when I let him know why
downstairs had suddenly gotten so hot, but within an hour the mission was
accomplished and we could go back to normal.
I had planned to play golf at Trentham on Tuesday morning
after walking Bilbo. However, Wes got up and did the walk, so I set off just
after 7am and found myself driving through ever increasing rain and wind. It
was wettest at Trentham, so I drove on to Tylden in search of manure, which I
found, and came back via Trentham to see if the weather had improved. The flags
were slapping wetly against their poles at every green I could see and, if
anything, the rain was heavier, so I came home to the warmth and a pot of tea
instead. Wes went off to show ‘The Second Best Exotic Marigold Hotel’ at the
10am session and was hoping for a good turn-up. Barbara made her first visit to
the cinema, and hopefully she feels she could go back again with friends.
Afterwards we met for scones, jam & cream at The Food
Gallery. Wes had posted on FB that it was the 46th Anniversary of
our engagement, and he attached a link to Kenneth Branagh reading John Donne’s
poem, ‘The Good- Morrow’. Many friends told us they don’t remember their dates,
but we know when we met, when we decided to go steady (for want of a better
word) and the date Wes asked me to marry him. It is fun to reminisce and think
about all that has happened in that time.
1968 at Melbourne
Uni – love those curls!
Sadly I have been unable to keep up the 5 + 2 diet – more
than anything I missed the structure of stopping for a good meal in the middle
of the day and I didn’t really investigate what else I could eat apart from
fruit salad, so I was very hungry indeed by the end of each day. Wes is lasting
better than I am and is very keen to keep off the 5kg he has lost.
Judi had invited me to go with her to Castlemaine on
Wednesday as there was no Mah Jong, so after gym I came home, changed quickly
and walked to their place where we had a cup of tea and picked some pears for
Bilbo before heading to Castlemaine and art. We visited upstairs at ‘Run,
Rabbit, Run Café’, which had an interesting display of local artist, Catherine
Tait’s work, much of which had sold; then off to ‘Tog’s Café’ to look at a
colourful series of nests and still life paintings by Daylesford artist, Roger
Roberts, and finally to a display in the Information Centre which was a
tongue-in-cheek send-up of the spate of celebrations by small towns in the
Goldfields area. We didn’t realise it at the time, but on reflection, decided
that the stories were too silly to be true!
We decided to go to the Castlemaine Art Gallery as well – it
is a small gallery, but has at least one painting by all of the artists of the
Heidelberg School as well as a stunning Fred Williams and a John Brack. There
was a special display by an aboriginal artist, but neither of us was able to
appreciate his colourful, naive work.
We went back to ‘Run, Rabbit, Run Café’, which had intrigued
us earlier and enjoyed a very yummy and well-priced lunch – quiche for Judi
& salad with tuna for me. This description doesn’t do the food justice – it
was fresh, served with a big smile and they remembered us from earlier in the
day. Finally we went to ‘She Sells Seafood’ where I bought some Ocean
Barramundi for Wes to do something creative with for dinner that night. And he
did – marinated the fillets in sherry & garlic and cooked them to
perfection with our own beans and caramelised onions.
Meanwhile Wes spent the morning in our garden widening
borders, and then worked across the road at Barbara’s place before grabbing a
quick bite to eat and driving to Newlyn with Eddie Beacham to interview John
Hungerford of Newlyn Antiques again.
It was my turn to walk Bilbo early which I enjoyed doing on
Thursday and then we did shopping at Coles to let Wes have a well-earned sleep
in. I bought 4kgs of cooking tomatoes from Tonnas and made some more pasta
sauce, so we should be right for Winter! We spent the afternoon and evening
watching Australia vs India at the SCG. Sadly this game wasn’t as exciting as
the NZ vs South Africa match, and after about 30 overs, only Australia could
win, which they duly did.
Not everyone was
riveted to the broadcast of the cricket!
On Friday we all slept in as it was wet and cold. I decided
not to join the Bushwalking Group as it was still raining at 8.45am, so Bilbo
and I walked around town an hour or so later. We met Wes who had been helping
out at the local cinema and had a cuppa together sitting outside The Food
Gallery Café. Wes went on home but we finished our walk and arrived back just
before the rain settled in again. One of the big pleasures of not getting up
early on Friday was doing DA’s crossword before breakfast. It was a most
enjoyable and satisfying puzzle which centred on Sherlock Holmes.
In the afternoon I joined the U3A Flicks on Friday group to
see ‘Words and Pictures’, a Fred Schepsi film starring Clive Owen and Juliette
Binoche. It was a wonderful, inspirational film, set in an American High School,
where two teachers argued over whether Words or Pictures were more powerful. I
didn’t stay for the afternoon tea, but everyone else was very keen to hang
around and chat about the thoughts that the film had provoked.
Yesterday I walked Bilbo early as Wes had to leave to spend
the day at the ALP State Conference, where he was an FEA delegate. I met up
with Glenn Mack by chance when I went to the Nursery, and we enjoyed a cuppa
and catch up together at ‘Cliffy’s Café’ next door. Back home I pulled out the
bean plants and tidied up the tomato plants before retiring with the latest
Wexford by Ruth Rendell and a quiet afternoon. Wes meanwhile heard an
inspirational address by Premier, Daniel Andrews, where he promised equal
representation by males and females on all boards that he could influence. This
was a very popular pledge and set the scene for the rest of the Conference.
This morning we are off to the MCG to see the ICC World Cup
Final between Australia & New Zealand and looking forward to a good match
in front of a huge crowd.